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From Kessem.com

What was the birthday party theme?

A Post-Birthday Celebration, suitable to follow any kind of party!

A birthday…

For kids, it's a dream come true!

Friends, presents, a birthday cake, blowing out the candles, making a wish… and then – all of a sudden – it's all gone! The guests go home, the rest of the cake is stored in the fridge, the presents are all opened and the wish is long expressed… now what? – For certain kids, the answer is: weeping.

How can we prevent this disappointment-following-an-over-excitement? Here's an idea: a post-birthday celebration!

Tell us about the party.

Let the birthday kid know in advance that the birthday celebration will be followed by a post-party party (state exactly when), in any way that suits you. For instance:

* Delaying opening the presents to the next day, or even opening a small number of presents each day during several days, instead of opening them all at the end of the party.

* A festive meal: light a new candle on a slice of the remaining cake; decorate the table with candles; hang balloons; order in… – whatever makes this meal stand out for you.

* Play a special game or engage in any other activity that the child likes and that you don't usually engage in.

* Go out to a favorite place.

* Feature a "gala presentation" of the video you shot in the birthday party (assuming you did). In the link below I attached "cinema tickets" which you can use; I like to prepare them and give one to each family member beforehand.

The "auditorium" is the TV room, the "row" refers to the relevant sofa, and the "seat" to right/ left/ center. It's really nice to attach (using Velcro) notes to the back of the "seats", corresponding to the seats on the tickets. Use a pin to perforate the ticket and thus allow for the "theatre copy" to be detached. Enjoy!

Find here the file containing the cinema tickets (along with other birthday suggestions): http://ht.ly/3wmyz

Lessons Learned

  • The lesson I learned is that these post-birthday parties are always worth my efforts. Take note, however, that the kids might get addicted to them; don't plan *too* much, or you won't be able to fulfill next year's expectations... :-)

Megan Cooley, Kids' Parties & Celebrations Guide, says:

Thanks for sharing your ideas for keeping a child's birthday party going! At my house, we keep the main decorations up for a few days after the party to maintain the excitement. We also set the presents out in our living room (where we don't normally keep toys) instead of immediately putting them away in the playroom. I especially love your idea of a special showing of the birthday party video. Kids love seeing themselves on TV and your ideas would really elevate the moment.
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